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Dear CSGR Sexperts

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009

The Center for Sex and Gender Relations fields questions on sex, safety and sexuality. Here is their most recent column.

Dear Sexperts,
So, Spring Break is coming up. My friends want to fly south, and I’m totally psyched, but I’m a little bit worried about staying safe. Any words of wisdom?
~Worry Wart

Ah, spring break. It’s a wonderful time. Some of us fly to warmer climates; others drive home and reconnect with old friends. However, regardless of where you choose to spend it, spring break tends to be a time of merriment. This means partying and drinking, which often leads to a decrease in condom use.

However, many colleges report an increase in students who wish to be tested for STIs after the return from spring break. Students seem to fear that, in the words of Deborah Mathis, the Administrative Director of Women’s Health at the University of Pennsylvania, “They’re bringing back souvenirs that they didn’t intend to.” While it is good news that students are getting tested when they return, the fact remains that they engaged in risky sexual behavior in spite of knowing the risks. So, wherever you’re going, make sure that you bring plenty of condoms with you: condoms are the best way to protect against STIs during oral/anal/vaginal sex. Guys, remember that protection is your responsibility too. Also, although the alcohol may be free-flowing and plentiful, try to remain alert, and stay with your friends at all times. Being in a strange place and under the influence could present dangers other than STIs, such as sexual assault.

Finally, remember that HPV is one of the most common STIs out there, and is known to lead to cervical cancer. The Gardasil Vaccine is available at Health Services, right here on campus (The vaccine consists of 3 shots, at a cost of $150 per shot). So if you haven’t already, go get vaccinated!

Have a fantastic, fun, and safe spring break!

Condom Carnival, Tues. 5:30pm

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

The CSGR will be hosting a Condom Carnival Tuesday March 3rd in the Dining Hall. Between 5:30 and 7:30 students will have the opportunity to play carnival games and win condoms. Why not?

(fbook)

Sexual Assault Panel Discussion

Tuesday, February 10th, 2009

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The CSGR will be hosting a panel discussion titled Rape: Breaking the Stigmas on Wednesday at 7pm in Gannett. Moderated by Rachelle Calhoun The goal of the panel is to create heightened awareness about the crime of sexual assault, and to provide useful information on relevant topics of interest to law enforcement, first responders, forensicscientists and nurses, victims, and the community at large, particularly college-aged men and women.

The panel will include:

  • Dr. Henry Lee, founder and professor, Forensic Science Program, University of New Haven and Chief Emeritus, Connecticut State Police
  • Donna Palomba, founder, Jane Doe No More, Inc. and sexual assault survivor
  • Jim Murphy, District Attorney, Saratoga County
  • Ed Moore, Chief of Police, Saratoga, NY
  • Heidi Voight, Office of the Speaker of the House, CT and sexual assault survivor

(fbook)

No More Secrets After Tomorrow

Monday, December 8th, 2008

Take a break from memorizing French verbs, or whatever, and stretch your memory back to when we told you about the Center For Sex and Gender Relation’s PostSecret, and well, the deadline for submissions is tomorrow. Inspired by the Secrets threat on the ACB and the PostSecret blog, the idea is to decorate a postcard with one of your juiciest secrets  and send it anonymously to The CSGR. A show curated by The Center with some of the endearing, awkward, depressing submissions goes up in Case Gallery on the 11th at 9pm.  Food will be served.

Also tomorrow, there will a Bias Response Open Dialogue for you to talk about those infamous bias incidents that occured on campus this semester. Stop by Gannett at 7:30pm for some good ol’ chit-chat.

CSGR Break In Update

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Yesterday’s post about the break in and vandalism at The Center for Sex and Gender Relations seems to have attracted some off campus attention. Today a small story ran in Albany’s Times Union and 4 television stations were on campus today looking to report. Courtney Franko, the Head Peer Advisor for the Center, emailed us these photos of the vandalism, which she personally believes is unrelated to the break in. In these photos from around The Center you can see the perp’s creativity as they scrawled something incomprehensible about “bitches,” accompanied by “for dykes only” and what looks like “dykes cunts.”

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The Sexperts Answer: Masturbation?

Monday, November 24th, 2008

The Center for Sex & Gender Relations has had a ‘Sexpert’ column featured in SkidNews for quite sometime. The Sexperts, as they refer to themselves, are students who answer sex-related questions asked to them by other curious students. No longer hosted by SkidNews, Skidmore Unofficial is proud to feature some of these columns. We encourage anyone wondering where babies come from and other complicated questions to drop by the office and ask.

The CSGR writes…

How often is it normal to masturbate?

Masturbation is a very common and normal sexual practice; however, it remains a taboo subject for most people. Your question is a very common one for that reason because there is still a certain amount of shame and embarrassment associated with masturbation: people want to know if they do it too much. This is especially true of women. This is perhaps due to a belief that masturbation is only for people who, for one reason or another, do not have access to real sex. This is evident in certain slang terms such as “jerk” or the British “wanker,” both of which are derogatory terms that come from words for masturbation.

But everybody masturbates — couples do it too! Masturbation is a very healthy practice. It is a great way to get in touch with ones body, and it relieves sexual tension in the healthiest way possible: there is absolutely no risk of pregnancy or STIs! As to the question of too much masturbation, it is only a problem if it interferes with your daily routine. For example, if you are avoiding contact with other people in favor of masturbation, it is a problem. Ultimately, there are as many different kinds of masturbatory habits as there are people.

CSGR Offices Vandalized

Monday, November 24th, 2008

Joe Yanks from the Center For Sex and Gender Relations tipped us off to some bad news: some time this weekend the Center’s offices on the third floor of Case were robbed and vandalized. From what we know the perps broke into the office, stole all of the cash, and then proceeded to vandalize the door of the office as well as the “domestic violence and rape board.” Scrawled across the offices were epithets such as “you bitches deserved it” and the ever-creative derogative “dykes.” While it is surprising that an act of such magnitude would happen on such a tolerant campus, hate crimes and acts of discriminatory violence have, as SkidNews recently reported, become more common. Campus safety was seen today collecting evidence from the scene and it appears that all of the graffiti has been removed before we were able to snap any pictures.

Joe Yanks explained “While it is definitely unexpected and unthinkable that this would happen at Skidmore, the Center will, in no way, be deterred from providing students with resources and assistance, while still maintaining privacy.” This despicable example is only one of what we are sure will be a surge in crime as the semester winds down.

Keep your eyes on your emails for the inevitable Campus Safety Report with more details to follow.

CSGR Sex Panel

Wednesday, November 19th, 2008

The Center for Sex and Gender Relations gathered together a group of brave volunteers who will be sitting on a “Sex Panel” today (11/19). Hailing from all different types of backgrounds, sexes, orientations, genders, experiences and stuff like that the volunteers will be courageously offering up their expertise in an open forum where students are invited to come and ask questions and talk about the “skidmore scene. ” We’ve noticed in out administrative duties over on the ACB that a lot of you (or maybe just one of you with a lot of time) seem to have tons of questions about dating, sex and hook-up culture on campus. This looks like a great panel for you folks.

Sex Panel
7:30pm
da Spa
(fbook)

Post Secret

Thursday, November 6th, 2008

If you are still foolish enough to check your mail everyday you’ve probably already received a blank postcard from the Center for Sex and Gender Relations. Inspired by the popular “secrets” topic over on the ACB, The Center is hosting a PostSecret where each students is able to decorate a Center supplied postcard with one of their secrets and then anonymously send it to back to the Center through campus mail. The goal is for us students to learn to be honest with ourselves and to raise awareness about issues facing students on campus. Then on December 10th the Center will curate an inevitably depressing endearing show with some of the secrets you guys have submitted. Sound familiar?

(fbook)

No Glove, No Love

Sunday, October 19th, 2008

So this Wednesday, Oct. 22, the Center for Sex & Gender Relations is hosting another one of Skidmore’s most glorified events. No, we are not talking about Fun Day, OktSoberfest, or any amateur shit like that, we’re talking about Free Condom Day. Due to the great success of the first Free Condom Day, noted by the absence of little babies and syphilis around campus, and the surprising surplus of glow-in-the-dark condoms, the Center has decided to unleash another wave of dome caps onto us students. Going to the Center is a great idea because it avoids playing with any of the potentially sabotaged willy wraps, as well as providing a number of other resources and fun facts. Keep up the good work students, and remember, no glove, no love.